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I went about my routine today, and got hit with sadness all of a sudden. I'm in my mid 20's and realized that most of my close friends have moved away. I have one friend who I'm lucky still lives close by, so we see each other from time to time. Other than her, I hang out with my boyfriend and I noticed whenever we go out, it's with his group of friends and their girlfriends. I can't help but feel lonely and sad. I wish I had more girl friends to hang out with. I'm just feeling like if I didn't have my boyfriend, I'd be alone often. and he gets on my nerves too. Been together almost 6 years and i'm not so sure he's the person i want to marry. i don't know what i want anymore besides being successful and having a close group of friends :(
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That was it is for me except much earlier. I barely had friends during high school and just managed to make a few friends at work. If you want to have more girl friends being social and meeting new people around that you can go often to will probably will help. If I didn't help at all or didn't do my best to help you, then I do hope that you will be able to have more friends and wouldn't feel sad and lonely one day. Stay strong and be brave!
ReplyHey there. That sounds like a tricky situation. I’m pretty bad at talking so I apologize if I say something wrong or make things worse I just want to say. Having a big group of friends won’t make anything better. You can have lots of friends who you make laugh and they love having you around but you don’t have a connection with them. You won’t have anyone to turn to when your sad or when you need someone to talk to. Your boyfriend should be able to do that too. He should make it known that he is there for you and that you can tell him your feelings and even if he can’t do anything but hold you while you cry he should be there for you. It’s not easy to find friends that you can make a connection with. But you can’t start a friendship off by making them laugh and want you around because your funny. No one thinks you have emotions everyone thinks your just the friend. The one that’s okay and happy that doesn’t need help. But everyone needs help every once and a while. And you should get out more find someone who you can call a friend someone who one day you might be able to talk to. Someone you share a connection with
ReplyI wish it was that simple, but my closest friends that I talk to moved away. They were the ones I’d talk to about everything. I miss them so much, I’ve tried meeting new people. Even tried on an app, met the girl once and asked her to hang out and she kept making excuses or wouldn’t answer. It’s not easy as an adult
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