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Only by yourself. Locked in a room by yourself. Taping yourself for Youtube.
Until you're old! No one expects you to be beautiful when you're old. You are invisible, and therefore powerful.
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My Unsent Letter
Since I was a little I've wanted to wonder what would happen if I killed myself if anyone would even miss me or even notice I was gone, at a young age I always...
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Insight
What's up everybody. My name's Dave(Luroku89). Sunday night i'm O'Ding. I really can't take it anymore. I can't take people deciding that I can't be in their li...
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and you can never find love if you don't first see it in yourself. I think I'm ugly too *I mean a lot of us think we're ugly* but some days I find my confidence, and when I DO gain my confidence back on those days, my self love is restored once again. And on those days, others can see this confidence in me as well ^-^
You just have to find your beauty and pick those out aside from your "flaws". Plus who knows, maybe "flaws" to you are actually considered the beauty in others. For instance I've always hated this mole that I have but others tell me "you look really pretty, especially with your birth mark right there" or this other story I heard about a girl who got picked on and bullied for having really big eyes, but it turns out it wasn't even that bad. When she got older in college some cute guy told her "wow you have very nice eyes"
And don't even get me started with that "No one expects you to be beautiful when you're old." stuff, cuz I disagree with that one too. Like my grandma's gunu be 70 in May and I think she's still a very beautiful woman for her age, she looks 50 honestly. Plus I'm bi and I'm not gunu lie, I used to think "I'm not sure I wanna grow old with a girl because she might not be beautiful anymor" but who am I kidding? If I fall hard for her, I know I'd never think of her as ugly, not even when we turn 90 xD I'd still see her as beatiful.
And lastly, don't isolate yourself. That is what leads to suicide. That is what leads to feeling "ugly", and to feeling other negativity. Invisibility is not power! I know cuz I've been there. I used to think that same way too, and I thought nothing in the world mattered except for being selfish, but that just wasn't true ): being alone means feeling depressed, and then feeling used to the lonliness means pushing people away, and when we push people away, we just stay in that awful cycle of depression and lonliness. Just please hear me out and don't do it.
Whether you believe me or not, you are loved <3 and you are NOT ugly. Talk to me if you need someone to vent to or need advice or just whatever! (:
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