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Okay so, i have this group of friends. we’re five people or we used to be. let’s just call them 1,2,3,4 and 5. We had a great time when we first met each other but with time 1,2,3 and 4 started getting annoyed at 5. 5 was just really annoying, rude and sarcastic and we were not here for it. so we started hanging out without 5 and then it ended up being only 1,2,3 and 4.
some time went by and it was great. but lately 1,2 and 3 has been annoyed with 4. 4 is such a great person and we love 4. but we don’t feel like we can trust 4 because 4 always tells and shows the stuff that we do together to 4’s parents. and 1,2 and 3 think it’s great 4 is so close with 4’s parents but we don’t feel comfortable with 4 telling 4’s parents everything.
so we talked about it with 5 because 5 fell the same way. so 1,2 and 5 decided to tell 4 how we feel. because we didn’t want to hide how we felt to 4.
so when we confronted 4, 4 was sad. so 1 and 2 decided to talk to 4 later and make sure everything was fine. because we don’t want to lose 4. 4 told us 4 felt attacked and betrayed.
and we of course apologized and told 4 why we felt like we needed to tell 4 how we felt. so 4 said everything was fine. but the next day 3 tells 1 and 2 that 4 has told 4’s parents and some of 4’s friends about it. And that 4 was actually furious and that 4 wanted to find new friends and that 4 distances 4self from 1and 2.
now we don’t want to lose 4 and we really don’t want this to be why our friendship ends.
So what do you think we should do?
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True friends have unconditional respect and love for each other. Always remember this "those without faults cast the first stone"
ReplyNo. Friendship should have conditions !
You don't hurt on purpose , hurt family, mess with your life on purpose to prove something. Work behind the scenes to make you look like you are someone you are not.
Play games or ruin ones life.
I wouldn't do that .
Friendship or love shouldn't come with a price tag.
I vented on a site ...that is it.
If you couldn't handle the truth then maybe you should have left.
Also some friends will influence what you do by manipulation ...and pretending to be a friend.
People can lead you to believe certain things are ok...when it is not.
So pick your friends wisely because I wished I did!
ReplyWell those aren't true friends so your right there are no conditions
ReplyLeave 4 alone sis
Replyimo if 4 can't understand why you guys need your privacy then maybe it is best to stop hanging with them, at least for a little while. get them to understand you do mean business and that this is an issue you have, but remember to remind them you don't want this to happen and that you still care about them. friends come and go but someone sensible and true will surely come around
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