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So I know this sounds dramatic but please I really need help. I just recently got into a relationship with this guy and he’s a super sweet, socially awkward guy and I really thought I did like him and dating him would be fine but I’ve liked this other guy for a whole year before my boyfriend and I feel like I’m lying to him and to everyone. I want to tell him that I don’t think we are working but I don’t want to hurt him and I can’t just then tell the other guy I’ve liked him and swoon over him. But he worst thing is I think I started dating this guy because I needed to feel like I was wanted due to other issues in my life and it makes me feel worse. Please anyone I just want to avoid hurting him.
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You're hurting him now, he just doesn't know yet. You need to do the right thing and tell him the truth. Let him go so he can find someone that really wants to be with him.
ReplyThank you I’m the writer I just made an account. But this helps!!
ReplyYou can’t avoid hurting him. One way or another you will. I’m sorry.. but that’s the truth. Don’t lie to him, just let him go and tell him. Dating him like this isn’t the right answer. Don’t pity him. Just do it. For his happiness and for yours. Let him down slowly and gently, but let him go all the same. Be honest because if he finds out that you like another guy when you tell him that you’re leaving for another reason, then he’ll start to hate you and... just don’t lie is all I’m saying. It’ll hurt, but don’t lie. Also, I wouldn’t suggest getting together with the guy that you’re crushing on right after you break up. Because... that would be really awful. Good luck
ReplyIt's okay to like other people. You don't have to apologize. You could test what being honest and kind would sound like. "Billy, I have something incredibly selfish I need to tell you. I like someone else. I know how that must sound. I understand if you don't want to be friends with me anymore. Good bye, Billy"
ReplyI hope it turns out okay. Just try be honest with him.
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