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I’m a 16 year old girl and I have this guy I like. We will call him (G) and G has been my best friend for 7 years. I did date him for a year and we both mutually stopped because we knew we were better off as friends, best friends. And 4 years past and we still are Close and this year makes it 7 years as best friends. ANYWAYS, long story short basically he got more handsome and NOW I find him MEGA attractive but I don’t want my crush to ruin what we have. We always share our relationships and give advice on what to do when we don’t know how to handle things. We are currently single. And so, I just want to know... what should I do? Should I Just let my crush go... or tell him?
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Keep in mind my mom ALWAYS jokes around about him becoming my husband and my sister always saying “When is G ganna ask you out again” they are so dumb 😆
ReplyCute 🤣. If he has dated you before, that means that either he has at some point find you physically or mentally attractive. One of the biggest worry I have about relationships is why did he 'love' you. Is it because he wanted to 'use' you for his needs, or because he truly cared about you. If you are 100% sure like 100% only sure it is because he truly cares for you. I think the best course of action would be to test him a few times, making him jealous if possible, but not too much. As a guy, I feel like having a girl not too accessible is important, because often what happens is when you get what you want, you'll often just get used to it and forget about it. So if I were you, you should be close to him but make sure to be your own person. There is 3 things you can do: 1. You choose to tell him directly right here and there, and risk it all, which I would not advice since you could be risking your friendship. 2. Hide your feelings for him and wait and see if youre able to develop your feelings for someone else. 3. Wait and see how it goes. If you've been his friend for 7y, waiting a bit more and test him in different ways to see if you likes you the way you want him to is my advice. Anyway, I really think you should not rush things, you're still young, you have your whole life to find your lover. Don't rush it, but yes, if you do think he is the one for you, don't let it slip away either! :)
From a 20yo guy that has relationship problems 🤣
ReplyThank you! 😆😆
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