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On March 30, of 2019 I will commit suicide to prove to my ex-girlfriend that I still love her. I already told her about this but she won't know because she blocked me on every social media, so now she's the only one who can stop this.
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DO NOT commit suicide it will only hurt everyone around you if she broke up with you it's her loss. Please seek help and remember you have your whole life ahead of you, you are an amazing human being and you deserve a full life.
ReplyI'm not changing my mind.
ReplyDon’t commit suicide. Nothing good comes from it. You have people who love you. Tell your ex that you still love her. If she doesn’t take you back. There are plenty of people out there for you
ReplySuicide will never cure this pain. Is it really love when she treats you like this? To the point where you feel useless? like you don't deserve to be here? Alot of people have different opinions on love and i may not know the real definition but just know everything happens for a reason and you have to go through the rain to get the rainbow. Just know you are loved.
ReplyHow old are you?
Reply17, I would be turning 18 this year.
ReplyWhy?
ReplyIt hurts seeing others being happy, I want my happiness. I want my own happy story but I think I'm cursed.
ReplyAnd trust me.. This is not going to prove any damn thing.especiay not love.
ReplyPlease don't go down this path. You must realize that not all relationships end in harmony. She was clearly looking for something else, and that's fine. Accept it. There is someone out there who could be more perfect for you in every way, and then some. She could please you in ways you didn't know were possible. She could be your life partner, and best friend. But you would never know because you threw your life away for a woman who simply wants to move on. Your friends will be hurt, your family will be hurt, and you won't be able to experience everything life has to offer. Yes, breakups are hard. You cry and cry and wish things were different. But one day, weeks, months, sometimes years pass, you wake up, and feel better. You feel okay. You start to trust, and love, and find that special person that connects with you on a surreal level. It might take hundreds of relationships before you get there. You might find it tomorrow. But you will never know, if you don't push past this temporary agony, and make yourself a stronger person. You are still loved by family and friends. I guarantee your ex still loves you, just not in the same way as it was. Things didn't work out the way you wanted, and it happens. Pick yourself back up and try again. And again. And again. Don't give up your life, for anything. Don't give up. You got this. You are so much stronger than you think. Please don't try to manipulate people into loving you, or staying. You should want them to stay on their own, and if they don't, it's okay. Not every relationship is perfect. Not every relationship is meant to last. Some are meant to teach you lessons. It's okay to love others, but when they wish to leave, it's best to let them go peacefully. Learn from the experience, and improve. So that way, maybe, when you do meet the person of your dreams, you've been through all the hard stuff, and you can build eachother up for a better tomorrow.
ReplyWhy do you think suicide is an acceptable form of 'proof of love'? And why do you feel like you need to 'prove' your love in the first place?
Before you begin your 'proof'-- please consider reality and ask yourself a few things-answer honestly though or the hesitation will be pointless--
Ask yourself:
Will the outcome of this be in my favor? Will I get the result I am looking for?
What results am I looking for?
Are there any less extreme measures I can take that will yield the desired results?
How many people will this effect immediately? Who are they?
How many people will this effect in the long run? Say 1-3-5-10 years from now? Who are they?
How will those people feel emotionally after the fact?
Why do I think this will help the situation?
Do I care about my future? Name 3 things that are worth staying alive for.
Then please tell yourself ---this girl is great but if shes not great enough to acknowledge my existance or listen to my calls for help then shes not great enough to cause me to destroy everything and everyone around me and I deserve someone in my life that will make me a priority and support me and accept my love and appreciate my all or nothing outlook--
GodBless You and Yours
Please don't do that. Don't ever commit suicide. Those people who loved you as well as those whom you loved will get hurt if you choose that path. I don't think suicide is a way to prove your love. There's some other way apart from suicide, here: https://www.lovepanky.com/flirting-flings/dating-game/how-to-prove-that-you-love-someone. Please hang in there. You deserve to be happy, to be appreciated and to be loved.
ReplyThank you, but I'm not changing my mind.
ReplyIts your life. Not hers that you are wasting. Think with a clear head. I totally get its hard to let go. Take your time, but remember you existed just fine without her before. please don't kill yourself. There's people that definitely will be affected. People care, that's why we are called human.
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