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i have feelings for my friend, let's call him Daniel. We have been friends for a year. I don't know why i suddenly liked him. We're classmates btw.
He likes somebody else.
let me tell you from the very beginning.
June 2017, me and a few of my friends, transferred to a public school, because our previous school (private) closed. so we had to transfer. ( im from the Philippines, classes start at june, ends in march/april). we were in ninth grade. We became friends, then i learned that he liked my cousin. they were together for like a month, then my cousin broke up with him. but he still loves her.
Anyway, i felt sorry for him at first, because, after a few months, we heard that my cousin had to go and live in America. i was there when he cried. he begged and begged my cousin to come back to him, telling her that it's okay for them to have a long distance relationship. But this didn't make her agree. She went on to live in America with her mom.
not a day goes by that he didn't think of her.
But he has someone else now. she's a new classmate of ours. she's beautiful, talented, smart and cheerful.
me? im fat, ugly, shy, stupid, and clumsy.
he told me this morning: you're such a good friend, im so lucky to have you.
those words that he didn't know hurt me so much, are still ringing in my ears.
please, dear reader, help me move on.
[ Philippines, 03/25/2019 , 10:46 PM]
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You will never truly move on until you actually talk to him. Does he know that you have feelings for him? Silent pain is the worst pain, you have to take action and communicate
Replyhe doesn't know, but i will tell him.
thank you for your advice!!
Replydo this:
1) tell him that you feel for him and that it is okay if he doesn't go into a relationship with you. just knowing that he knows what you feel for him is enough for you(and keep telling this to yourself).
2) now that you have confessed to him, just let it go. feel good about yourself.
You are beautiful. however you are, you are still beautiful. everyone is beautiful. don't discriminate yourself. if you don't love yourself, then how do you expect others to love you? and even if you love yourself, you shouldn't expect anyone to love you, you know why? because you won't need anyone to complete you, as you would complete yourself (well I need to work upon that too, but hey! let's work upon it together?) and yes, know your self-worth, respect yourself, if you don't respect yourself then no one will respect you, hold your head high, be confident. you are strong and so is everyone. look into the eyes of fear, stare at them and see them vanish.
hugs<3
Replythank you so much pufferpanda!! i will take on your advice!! again, thank you so much.
Replymy pleasure <3
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