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I want to have a threesome. I'm married but the thought of my husband being with someone else gets me so mad!! So why do I want to have one if I'm getting jealous. I guess i want to but after I will probably get jealous. So wtf do I really want to or not! I hate myself
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Maybe your body just feels it wants something a little more different and exciting in the sexual department.. while your mind knows that there's consequences and that the threeway isn't really gunnu matter because you care too much /: i think. I mean I don't actually know I'm just tryna help best I can
But if you REALLY end up wanting to go through with it, assuming you're female, find a bi girl that's super into BOTH of you (maybe even leaning more towards women and liking you the most). Then you'd feel more of a balance in the situation, so that the jealousy can kinda be mellowed out.
I only say this cuz I'M a bisexual female and honestly I've fantasized of this particular couple and they are just so hot together it makes me want to join in just one time in the bedroom lop but I know how jealous the girl would get, so I'd have to give her extra attention so that she doesn't think I would steal her man or something, which I totally wouldn't. I wouldn't want to steal either of them, I just fantasize about having a fun one time thing with them TOGETHER, like SHARING..
So idk, I hope this helps. Good luck either way! ^-^
Replyhave a threesome with a man instead of a woman. =/
ReplyLOL
ReplyHave you talked to your husband about this? If you really do want to go through with a threesome (the jealousy isn't irrational... don't hate yourself) talking about your concerns with him could help make you feel so much better and quell your nervousness. Talking about your feelings prior to entering a new adventure such as that can help put you both on the same level and make the entire experience so much more comfortable and enjoyable.
ReplyIt wouldn't be the wisest decision to have a threesome if you're the crazy jealous type. You need to have a lot of trust in the relationship with your partner and be confident in yourself to make a threesome work.
ReplyNo I do not think you need confidence. I feel if you really love each other then you will find your pleasure and happiness with your partner and that is confidence!. Roll playing and fantasy can be fun but with your partner. If you are okay with your partner being with someone else then I guess you probably do not really love them. So many guys want their partner to be with a chick or to be BI, because they reap the benefits of having more women, however mention the idea of having another male then.. oh no never mind!
Often times the fantasy does not match the reality.
To tell someone to have confidence enough or trust enough while giving your love to someone else? Doesn't make a lot of sense to me. You can say well I do not love them but i love you and that it is just lust for them and why cant we share this together? Brainwashing in reality. To say someone is the crazy jealous type to not want her partner to be with someone else is absurd. To each their own if you chose that for yourselves, but do not push your thinking on others that are not okay with this type of relationship.
For me my mind and heart is a one man woman who want a one woman man.
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