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I have already written about my situation but I will write again in case you haven't read it
I have a best friend she did one mistake in class and my teacher thought I did it .I told my teacher In a polite way that I did not do it then she asked me who did it. I can't say her name because she is my best friend. So I was in a dilemma of what to do I thought my friend would come out and tell the truth instead she stayed calm and acted like she don't even know about it. I was disturbed because I'm a truthful person and straight forward and I won't accept it when anyone accuses me of something I didn't do. My friend knows that too. When I told her I don't know what to do she said to forget that matter and it's my bad luck. clearly she doesn't have any intention of accepting the truth. Is she being selfish? How can I trust her from now on..and how can I be normal to her like she is acting? I have been thinking about this matter a lot while she is enjoying should I continue my friendship with her? why this is happening to me?
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Dear, you already knew the answer right away. Friends wont hurt each other. She took advantages of the situation. Protecting her is good but you also need to clarify that you dont like what she is doing. Thats what friends are for, advising each other. And if she still doesnt learnt from her mistakes and keep repeating it, by then you can consider to stay with or left her.
ReplyPeople make mistakes, but the fact that she threw you under the bus and didn't even apologize or make repairs and needed says something about her as a friend. Here is an example for you.
In high school a classmate of mine made a "giant hemp necklace" from a random rope in shop class. She adorned me with said necklace and the teacher turned around and yelled at me for having a "noose" and asked who made it. I said nothing and he gave me detention. I was devastated because I had never been in trouble. I was barely friends with the girl and she stepped up and told the truth by the next class and said I never needed to get in trouble for something she did. And that wasn't even a close friend.
Real friends have each others back, and don't just abandon friends who are in hot water.
ReplyThat's great your friends stood up for you . I've always wanted a true friend but how can she b my true friend if in this small situation she left me alone to suffer how can I trust her anymore
ReplyDear believe me leave! No matter whatever she have done for you same happened in my case i keep on ignoring her selfish attitude but at the end she left me for same selfish attitude herself
ReplyYou can be a good person and a good friend without making friends with bad people. Look for others in your life who value honesty and supporting their friends. Who knows? You might have a new friendship waiting to happen around the corner.
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