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ok my life just sucks. my grandpa just passed away and that's breaking me. on the other hand, i don't feel loved by anyone. i am trying to move out of my mom's house into my dads because i'm depressed there. it sucks because she was my best friend and she changed. my best friend doesn't pay attention to me anymore because she is too consumed with her boyfriend. so because of all of this i just wanted someone to love me, just to notice me. so i started something that i knew was fake when it started. he was hot, blue eyes, blonde hair, yk the too good to be true. i fell for him, and he just took advantage of me, and i can not get over him. i'm still trying to talk to him and i have no clue why. also what should i do about my bestfriend? i don't know how to word to her how i feel because i have tried and she is like "he is my boyfriend i have to balance time with y'all" . everything is just falling apart. someone please help me.
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ok my life just sucks. my grandpa just passed away and that's breaking me. on the other hand, i don't feel loved by anyone. i am trying to move out of my mom's...
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I need advice about a quote a made.
"Go down the right path. For if you lose the chance, you may never find it again." ~ Ronica...
People do love you. There are certain people that you have to look for when it comes to love. When I feel lonely, I think that nobody wants me around or that I'm a burden, but I'm really just denying the fact that I am refusing the people that want to talk to me and love me the most. Just look for the people who will make an effort for you, and don't let anybody use you.
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ReplyNo problem. Love yourself.🤘🤙
ReplyDeath in a family causes depression (I lost my entire family in a matter of years to diseases and my father was only 60 when he passed), it’s devastating and at the very least will affect you and your current state of mind, and possibly for a while depending on your ability to cope and shift your focus. As for those people who used to show you love and attention they may be reacting to your new feelings of despair and not able to really help you/be compassionate in the way you need. This is common because in life we get what we put out. If you see things in a depressing light many people will start to distance themselves (not because they don’t love you but out of self-preservation and human nature). I’m not saying to bottle up your emotions and act happy btw! Also, you sound insightful and knowledgeable about your situation (dating someone based on eye candy vs someone of actual substance or who has qualities that were deeper attracting to you). He’s been a distraction for your mind that’s why you are obsessing, but not a healthy distraction. Do not use people as crutches or distractions as it will only hinder your true progress. I know it sounds cheesy and boring but the reality is you need a passion (not human), that gives you a sense of accomplishment and pride, and can help you feel better and not focus on the people around you so much. I’ve dealt with loneliness since I was young (I was adopted, mother wasn’t close, father was amazing but worked a lot) and I would obsess over the people in my life, jumping from 1 bf to the next without a day in between just to fill that gap. The truth is as you grow up you’ll realize (and I’m sure you’ve heard it before and it doesn’t ring true now, but...) Happiness comes first from within you, created by you and in the things you do - when you help an animal or a person you don’t know, when you make someone laugh it helps you feel better - focus on using your thoughts and energy to produce things, crafts, a new business - anything to help you stay busy and away from the tendency of self-wallowing (it was my entire life to think’ about my feelings when I was 16-20, and once I focused outward my life changed for the better drastically! Not always easy and not always happy but you find the passions (not people) that will drive you and when you do that, the true people you’re supposed to have in your life will start to arrive and true love will be found.
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