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So my boyfriend of 2 years has been unfaithful and cheated on me multiple times. He was very emotionally abusive throughout. Narcissist? I believe he is for multiple reasons.
I moved out the last time it happened. About a week later he came back asking for "closure" which then turned into him wanting to talk about making it work.
He wants me more and thinks it would be healthy if we lived apart. Still dating.
First of all, I feel sick thinking about trying to trust him. That part of me is gone.
Second, I probably shouldn't waste any more time with someone with such major character flaws. It goes beyond lying and cheating.
Third, I sort of want to. But I have given him chance after chance and it always ends up the same.
Someone slap some sense into me! Help!
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He clearly doesn't respect you! Why would you want to stay with him at all? You don't deserve to be treated like this.
ReplyHe doesn't seem worth it, he is probably just going to end up hurting you again. You deserve someone so much better than him.
ReplyI think you answered your own question when you wrote "First of all..." and the other two reasons.
ReplyI spent six years on a man like this..
The years of my life when I was best looking and should have been looking for a quality man. I didn't, and now I am alone with no friends, no one to talk to, and feeling old and irrevocably changed. I no longer know if I can trust any man, or even that someone would find me attractive now.
The red flags were there from the beginning, but I was lonely and I'm the type who stays with someone when they get attached. Instead I received narcissistic behavior, breaking up with me to have one-night stands and short flings, getting back together while he praised me up and down and made me feel like a princess... to the inevitable pushing me away, hurting me, insulting me, rarely acknowledging what he did wrong, calling me "crazy" and blaming all our problems on me... when all I ever wanted was a stable, reliable relationship with a caring person who would be there for me and be my best friend.
He hardly gave me that but I deluded myself into thinking it was "good enough," until HE finally is the one to tell me he's no longer interested in me, after years of on and off BS.
So yeah. Don't make my mistakes...
ReplyYou're strong. When you're sick you need to make sure you get rid of what's making you sick, so...I think that this guy needs to leave. If you can't trust him, a relationship is absolutely not going to work. He's just hurting you.
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