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I'm confused. I try to be as talkative as possible and to spend time always with people around me. But lately I have been questioning myself if that is how I really wish to be. Because nowadays often I picture myself going on a solo trip, doing things alone, being alone. I sometimes wish to go to a new place wherein nobody knows me and try living there. I'm starting to feel that being alone makes me feel relaxed, calm and serene. I'm starting to feel that I'm not the talkative kind I actually picture myself to be instead I'm someone who likes to remain quiet and observe her surroundings. I'm just totally confused !!! Sometimes I want people around me and sometimes I just want to be alone. When will i even figure out what I really want ??!! I badly need to go on a solo trip to figure myself out. 😖
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I think that you feel like you need to be alone because you actually need time to recharge because I know what you feel in this aspect. Sometimes when interacting with others, you can only engage so much, so it is okay to take time alone and just spend time with yourself. If you can, do just what you want to do, travel alone, go to diner dates by yourself. But I wouldn't recommend dropping everything and moving to an unknown city haha. Also maybe you're an ambivert meaning that you are a mix of extroversion and introversion. Many people can change on the spectrum of being an introvert or extrovert. Finding yourself and what you really want is a slow process and is something that only you can give to yourself.
ReplyIt is okay to want both. I am talkative by nature. But i have also managed to go on solo trips, do things by myself and focus on myself. I just choose to hangout with people maybe once a week or once every 2 weeks and the rest i just do my own thing. I go on solo trips once every 3 months by myself.
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