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I have a friend who forces me to do everything with her like going to classes when im literally sick and about to die, and forcefully makes me group study when i told her a thousand times that i dont learn anything by it. I give a thousand excuses as to why i dont want to study with her and she still calls me to study with her. At this point im extremely annoyed by her voice and hate how she’s so controlling. Also whenever i ask her to do something she always makes an excuse and say no and cancels the last minute idk what to do. Please tell me an effective way to say no to people which would actually shut their mouths?
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ReplyYou just have to tell her the truth She will never stop bothering and controlling your life if you don't tell her how you feel.If she is really your friend,she will understand and respect it,life is too short so tell people how you feel.
ReplyJust tell them the truth and don't tall to them. I once had this friend named Yvette and she controlled me too, but she always came back, the reason being because i did ALL the apologizing when she never did. I ended up leaving her because she didn't like something i was going to do (hang with some other new friends) and she told me if i left, im a backstabber. It hurt but it's okay now, she doesn't control me anymoee and im free to do things i couldn't do before. If she is upset, thats fine. The only way you guys can be friends is if she stops the controlling and realize what she did to you, and apologize but if she repeats it, you guys are done.
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ReplyI have the same problem and i could relate to your story . My best friend literally invades my personal space . She always calls to see what im doing and she points out what we should study , she chooses all the past papee we should work and whenever i suggest smth or tell her i don t want to do that . She d complain for too long and she rejects everything i say . And whenerver i ask her to do smth together she says no i don t want to and that she s not great at doing what people want her to do . And it s just so annoying and suffocating .
So what i did was blocking her so that she wouldn t call and i had to do on social media and on my siblings phone as well . I didn t answer her during the weekend and i felt so relaxed doing what s on my mind . I felt so damn free . As we are classmates , she was so annoyed when i came back and started yelling . As im an introvert i didn t think i d be able to answer her . But when she told me about her feels when i ignored her i just exploded and told her everything . We didn t talk for a while but then she apologised . As for nox she doesn t call that often and she doesn t order me around . Although she sometimes asks me what im going to do or what did i do , sometimes i had the courage to give her looks and avoid the question and sometimes i just answered her and reminded her that it s my own business. But she understood .
So i think talking it over and saying the truth would be the best .so do it and good luck !
ReplyJust tell her directly that you dont want whatever shes trying to make you do. And if she really is your friend or atleast true friend then she wouldnt do such things and try to understand you if you cant accompany her
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