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I love my wife but more and more i am feeling more and more attracted to other women and an urge to be out having fun. Im 33 and we have been toghther since we where 15 and feell i have missed out on things.
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If you truly love your wife, than other people should be out of the question. If your wife loves you, then trust me you got a good end in life and you're not missing out.
ReplyFalling in love can be hard most of the times but choosing to stay in love with someone is the hardest. I have never been in love with someone but someone i knew told me that staying in love takes a lot of courage and strong will. If you're married to someone you love and you feel that the spark is slowly fading, go back to reason why you love her, why you choose her of all the girls around you. Choose to stay in love. And when you love her, you'll maybe missed a lot of things that people see as fun but you can have the joy, peace, and love with your wife in return :)
ReplyYou proberly did miss out on things like playing the field one night stands. But you have got something really special you have spent all your adult life with the same person you have grown up together. Thats something many would love to have.
I have played the field and had plenty of one night stands. Im 40 and had no meaningful relationships and i would give anything for what you have.
If you love your wife you will find a way to fet rid of those feelings of missing out and get back to being happy with what you have.
18yrs is amazing amout of time with someone especially in this modern world we live in keep that its something truly amazing.
ReplyI am a guy so let me say something to you as a friend. Sometimes a relationship keeps going because you choose to stay with, it is not because you two don't have a problems. You are not living in fantasy friend and not kid anymore. Not all of things can be fix because of your feelings.
ReplyI’m kind of in the same boat as you, but I’m a woman. I’ve had similar feelings, of being curious. Of wanting to experience adventure. Maybe your wife is feeling something similar. If you have a strong relationship maybe bring it up? Get creative together.. If you cheat, you might regret it and it could ruin your marriage.
Replyi agree. you dont want to risk losing your marriage. You will regret cheating in the future.
Replytalk to your wife about it. Just be open and honest. Do some really nice things for her too, so that she will be more open to your feelings, lol. Maybe your wife has been feeling similarly, but it's not too late for you two to communicate.
Replysometimes people forget how beautiful marriage is. Dont lose yours while its still going. Chasing your feelings wont necessarily make you happy.
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