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I am constantly annoyed by my best friend's jealousy, negative attitude, clingy personality, lack of self care, and her friends. I want to tell her how i feel, but she is over emotional and is constantly falling in an out of depressions. I also have some thoughts to speak of concerning her. So my friend is a "sugar-holic" she devours sugar by itself, and she speaks of being dehydrated but everything she says that she feels are symptoms of early diabetes, so i am worried about her, but i doesnt seem severe. And i am worried about her self-esteem, she doesnt brush her teeth, doesnt brush her hair, doesnt wash her face or glasses and doesnt seem to shower, and i know these things are available to her.So i am scared to end our friendship. I need whatever advice you have to offer.
Sincerely, a worried friend
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Depression can be very hard difficult to understand. Your friend may be very down lately so try to talk with her about it. Just tell her you're concerned. But if she treats you badly it might be that she's toxic.
ReplyThanks for the advice. I have found myself in depressions that last months. So I understand what she is going through. And i will talk to her and try to update you. And she doesn't necessarily treat me badly, but is very selfish at times, such as when i see she is down i try my best to help her, but at some point i was in such a bad place and had very awful thoughts of myself and obviously was depressed, she didn't seem to care and didn't try to help me like i do for her.
ReplyI think it's best to speak to your friend in the best way possible,if you're that concerned about her well-being. If you don't tell her what's going on with you, how do you expect her to be there for you too when you're having a hard time?
People can't read minds. That is why it's super important to reach out and speak up about a situation. If you're both struggling, it might be nice to be there for each other and encourage one another through this time. Try to get through it together as friends,right?
Good friends would be there for you, even during your toughest and ugliest times in your life.
Replyyour friend is like me but she's so lucky to have you
I got no one to help me or talk to me
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