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I am a 25 year old female who is still a virgin. I would like to know what are guys honest opinion about a girl who is still a virgin. Does it matter? I've have been in two relationships and have had opportunities for it to happen but it just didn't feel right. A part of me just wants to lose it, but a part of me feels I should wait until I find that guy who I fall in love with and who loves me back. But sometimes I just feel like a loser that I haven't done it yet.
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I'm a guy, but probably not your typical guy. For what it's worth I think virgins (both female and male) are pretty awesome. Sir Isaac Newton. Nikola Tesla. Countless famous women in history went to their graves as virgins. To me, it shows that you are dedicated to something greater than sex, be it faith in true romance, or whatever else is important to you.
I lost my virginity at age 19. It was unremarkable. To me, the ecstasy of a relationship is finding someone who makes you feel so wonderful that sex can wait. Like I said, I'm not the traditional guy because I'm not driven by my "lower brain". There's nothing inherently wrong with casual sex, but my opinion is that it should be the best it can be. And that happens only when you are with the best partner you can find :)
ReplySome of us lost our virginity because we felt like losers for not having lost it yet...
And in retrospect, we wish we hadn’t given it away to that one boy who wanted to take it...
We kinda wish we’d held out for that one boy who DESERVED it.
(Cause we’re married to him now, and he’s amazing.)
If you want to have sex, have it.
If you want your loss of virginity to mean something more, hang onto it!
You be you and do right by yourself!
ReplyHon, it’s up to you. It’s a big decision. It’s something you have that only you can give away, but trust me; it’ll feel a lot better to save it for “the one”, even if it may be a ways off. It’ll also mean a lot more to that person, knowing that it was given to them. It’s ok being pure, and honestly it takes real strength to hold out. It’s up to you, but don’t forget protection if you decide to go ahead with it
ReplyI was older than you when I lost my virginity. I thought it was with someone who felt the same way about me as I did about them, but they didn't.
So you're definitely better off waiting until you are with someone who chooses to commit to you and love you for you.
ReplyWhy was my comment flagged?
ReplySeriously, Novni, WHY WAS MY COMMENT FRICKEN FLAGGED!?!
ReplyStill waiting for a replie, novni...
ReplyPlease believe me when I say It is okay. You should NOT regret NOT doing something that you didn't feel right about in the first place. When it happens, you will be glad you waited for someone you are in love with, because the boy you fall in love with won't care. Some guys might care, but more likely than not its because they only want to have sex, not fall in love. If love and comfort is what you want, there is nothing wrong with that. Everyones first time deserves to be with someone they are comfortable with. I hope I helped
ReplyWait. Keep waiting. It's worth the wait. Don't throw away something's so valuable. I am a man here to tell you that you're not a loser because you haven't floosied around. Keep them legs shut and find you a husband.
ReplyIt’s a precious thing, not something to dispose of as quickly as possible. Don’t be ashamed fam, wait for the right guy
ReplyYou're not a loser. it means you value your virginity enough to save it for someone special to you. And i think that is awesome. Dont go throw it away on just anyone because alot of people just regret it.
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