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Is it just me being too kind or just being very stupid? I classify myself as an "introvert" and recently, that has been proven true when I took the Myers Briggs test. But just because I am shy around people, doesn't mean that I don't have friends. I have a few of them. I am very kind to them and almost all the time I do things that they did not even request me to do just to help them. But why do some of them just don't care? I do these things for them and yet they don't even care about me. Yes, I feel very irritated but time will pass and I will forget what I feel and after some time I will feel this again, and again, and again. Am I being too stupid? Does the relationship with my friends are too toxic? I don't even know how to deal with my feelings. I feel very lonely and alone.
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You shouldn't label yourself. None of the labels we give people matter. What matters is that you do things for you, not just other people. Friends are nice but they aren't everything and you can always find more. Sometimes people are too worried about themselves to ever express worry for others. That doesn't mean they can't be your friend though. You can't expect people to be perfect of act how you wish they would be. You can just accept people or find new people in your life. You shouldn't put all your feelings into this.
Replythe relationship with your friends is not toxic but sometime you have to prove yourself that who you are ,if you will try to keep changing yourself according to the people around you soon you will loose yourself.
help them when they needed but you also deserve help when time comes so just tell them about your feelings and if they will care they will change otherwise let them go .......
ReplyYou´re not stupid, your friends just don´t acknowledge the true and genuine friend they have. You must stay strong, everything would get better soon. You don´t have to change yourself just because of some people that don´t support you, you are yourself and you´ll find people that would love you and accept you for who you are.
ReplyGurrlll or boooii, i AM living the same fcking life as you do! I get frustrated with friends and classmates who seemed to not notice or care with how much I help them then a day later, I am okay with them again. I just fucking restart too fast to hold even tiny grudges to people! It's too fucking annoying. If you are at the end of your rope, tell them the sht that has been piling up inside your mind. But say it calmly and coherently. And if they're treating you like some kind of tool, and you've proven it countless times, stop being friends with those people. Real friends don't treat their friends like tools.
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