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OK so here we go I have recently decided to start dressing more on the boy side not even tomboyish I started to wear boys clothing. I do not want to be a boy however I feel more myself in boys clothing. My mom supports this as she claims she just wants me to feel comfortable. While telling her what I choose to wear the debate of if I could wear boxerbriefs or just boxers came up. She claims that because I still have female parts I need to wear what females wear to protect their genitials. It has been months since this debate and I have tried numerous time to get her to buy me boxers. I live in a place where you can't just walk to a store and buy underwear you have to drive at least 10 minutes to the nearest store. I have tried to bring this topic up again but she keeps turning me down. I have told her that I don't feel comfortable in panties because no matter the way I move I always get a wedgie I'm sure it happens to you too. I have looked in my brothers closet many times and have seen that he doesn't wear his underwear my mom gave me it is still in the package. Today I decided screw it if this is what I have to do to feel myself then why not. THEY ARE THE MOST COMFORTABLE THING IN THE UNIVERSE. Its a win win my brother isn't nagged by my mom to wear them anymore and I am not uncomfortable. There is only five so I am going to need more but thats a situation for a different time. Today I just wanted to celebrate my victory that may be small for you but its huge for me. And also its not just about the comfort its the fact my mom still expects me to dress as if im still her baby girl and wants me to wear dresses but she still claims she accepts me as if i'm blind and can't see the fact that she doesn't. My sister cut her hair and wears boy clothes to infact she dresses more boyish then some of my brothers. I just feel like they don't understand that i'm not trying to be like her and I relaized the same thing she did which is that boys clothes are much more comfortable and they are just what makes me happy. The jeans fit better the shoes are nicer and the sweaters are so much more comfortable.I am going to ask her a few more times to buy me boxers and hope she says yes. Thank you for reading this long about Underwear. Also I love being a girl so I just like dressing like a boy and am called a stud in school because I am gay. I don't mind being called a stud cause that's what I am I take dyke as a very offensive word. I dress boyish like in sweats and a t-shirt as that is considered boys clothes in my family. Before this I could not wear sweatpants outside the house and now I can. I wear outfits that the boys would wear to school button ups with shirts underneath and sweats. I have really long hair and don't plan on cutting it anytime soon. This post has become to long and I am tired so again thank you for reading this far.
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personally, i say u rock. you do you and don't let anyone tell you that you can't dress in boys clothes. You should be proud that you are able to wear what you want and feel good about it. don't take peoples words seriously. there are so many people that would love to be in your position(aka me, im trans but can't get guys clothes without being interrogated ^_^) Yet again, you do you. no one can tell you what you can and can't do. and yes, they are awful and guys clothes are better. keep being awesome girl! (also, happy almost pride month<3)
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