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So lets replace these people's names with numbers. 1 being me. So 1 and 2 have been bffs for years now, this year though 3 joined their group. 1 and 2's friendship didn't get any worse. It has been 1 2 and 3 for a while now. In the beggining of the year, the first day of the year, in 1's math class was 4. 1 has math class before lunch. 1 and 4 sat together. So 4 asked 1 to sit with her. 1 didn't really know 4 and said in the kindest way possible she wanted to sit with her friends. It was 2 and some others (3 didn't come to the school yet.)
Fast foward to February. 1 2 and 3 only sit together. So 1 decided to do dance for the marking period. 2 or 3 didn't. In that class 1 was with one other girl only. It was supposed to be 3 others but nope. The other girl we'll call 5. 5 is very kind to 1, 1 is very kind to 5. They are friends. 1 thought maybe she could be closer with 5 like ask for her number, thats it she didn't think anything else of it. Until recently....
Now we're in mid march, maybe like march 11. 2 was absent that day, leaving it just 1 and 3. 1 and 3 don't like just them at lunch-they need a third person. So they went by their friends 6 and 7. 1 learned something that day---- 6 and 7 sat at the same table as 5! Who sat by 4! They didn't talk but 1 overheard funny conversations and great friend talk by their group. Soon after, 1 didn't think her friend group actually was so good. She started hating 3 but wanted to be friends with 2 still, just move to 4&5's table at lunch.
Fast foward to now. It's almost the end of the marking period, which means if 5 and 1 do dance again, they could be in different dances. 1 still hasn't asked, she wants to the Wednesday before the end of the marking period because she figures she might just start fresh after her birthday. Also this might sound kind of selfish, but 1 wants 2&3s gifts for her. It would be a wast of money if they didn't give her them. 1 figures though it wouldn't be so bad if she had to earlier. 1 is nervouse though! What of 5 rejects her. What if 1 doesn't fit well with the group? what if its awkward because after months, 1 and 4 are sitting together and 1 declined in the beggining of the year but now bc of someone else 1 is sitting there? How can it work out? How is it possible for 1 to still be friends with 2? What is the way to do it where 5 will most likely say yes? 1 and 5 don't really share jokes but are kind to each other and friends although they don't talk about themselves a lot or have deep convos a lot. However you can consider the, friends. Any advice for 1?
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Man, i didnt quite understand thus situation clearly, but... Its about love and friends. While i cant offer you a direct advise on that, i could tell you that gf/bf type relationships in a friends grouo can become awkward. It doesnt mean it always is like this. Everyone shouldnt always get aong with everybody. On the other hand, you should probably think through about 5, do you like her or do you love her? Is it permanent? or temporal? Whateer happens, friends tend to last longer.
Sorry for that bla bla, im not that good at this.
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