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If I had a prettier face. If I had a great body and I was flawless head to toe, i wouldn't be so insecure. I wouldn't have low self-esteem and have little to no confidence.
I would feel good and happy about myself.
If I were smarter, I would probably be successful in my education, career path and become wealthy.
I wouldn't have to struggle financially, be a loser who isn't smart and good enough.
If I had better surroundings, I would have alot more likeable attributes about my personality,be looked up to, be better loved and admired.
I wouldn't be looked down upon,misunderstood and mistreated.
If I had better genetics, i wouldn't end up having very few health problems. This is perfection in my own way. I would live a much better and happier life.
Maybe, I wouldn't hate myself and my life so much.
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There is no such thing as perfect or flawless, even the "beautiful" people have insecurities or confidence issues.
Every single person has at least one thing they don't like about themselves and wish they could change but the difference is how much you focus on it and how much you let it define you.
Try thinking of the things about yourself that you do like, there must be something.
ReplyYou’d be surprised how many “flawless” people as you say wish to change their appearance. Being “smart” is absolutely nothing without hard work, and the supposed less gifted people can outperform the “smart” people by being dedicated to bring out the genius in them, through things like self discipline, changing habits, etc.And the people you see as being just so unfairly smart are just normal people who lead different relationships with themselves throughout their lives, despite surroundings. You just need to come out of your shell, it’s hard. About having better surroundings, most of the time you cannot control your surroundings and if you become obsessed with doing so, you will always feel weight and will never win. Focus on only changing yourself and your habits and so changing the pessimistic mindset, and you’ll see your surroundings changing eventually or you changing to be able to overcome the negative feelings which the surroundings impose, it’s hard. Genetics is something you cannot change and your genetic composition is, at least in my belief, deliberate. You’ve heard it before, but dwelling over something you cannot change is the worst thing you can do. I know it’s okay for humans to dwell in self-pity once in a while for the sake of emotional relief, as long as it’s only temporary then it’s fine. But in the long term, what you should be consistently doing is actively trying to help yourself instead of constant self pitying as, shocker, it will make everything worse. Wish you the best xx
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