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I feel really ashamed of myself. I am 14 years old and I sent nudes and erotic pictures to a random 17 year old stranger.
I know it’s not safe to do that but I felt so lonely and unloved that I just wanted a distraction from everything. We exchanged nudes and he would tell me how pretty and good my body looked. It made me feel better about myself because no one has ever complimented me on my body or looks.
I am very self-conscious about my body and the fact that this complete stranger liked it boosted my confidence.
While exchanging nudes he would tell me to do things with my body that I was nervous and not comfortable with but I did them anyway just to please him. I didn’t want him to stop talking to me and then end up sad like how I was before.
I had told some of my closest friends of 11 years about this and they just laughed and kinda indirectly called me a hoe. But when I told another friend of mine that I have know for 2 years she supported me and told me she would’ve done the same thing.
Now today he hasn’t texted me yet or anything and I feel used. Like he only texted me because he was horny and needed entertainment.
I don’t know how to feel about this.
If anyone has anything to say can you please write your opinion below because I really need guidance on what to do.
Thx,
Sadhours 💕
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Someone who pushes you to do something sexual that you are not comfortable with is not a good person. There's nothing wrong with you. What you are feeling is very normal, and it's normal for someone your age to be experimenting in these ways. You are smart and know that this isn't safe. Also, there are many, many guys and people out there who will tell you that you are pretty. Only some of them are genuine when they say it, and the others are saying it to manipulate you. I would also say that someone who is 17 is likely a little bit old for you and that you should consider people who are closer to your age if you want to date/experiment sexually. Additionally, determine what you are comfortable doing and be able to articulate those boundaries to the people you are with. Anyone who doesn't respect what you are comfortable with is not someone you should waste your time on. Stay safe and know that you don't need male attention to be worthy and valuable.
ReplyI'm sorry to say this but you shouldn't have done that. Something is indeed wrong with you but we ALL have problems here (not trying to be mean). You really should respect your own body. The age gap makes a huge difference in your teens. You should NEVER do sexual things that others tell you to do that you don't want to. I'll be honest. It's not a good idea to do anything sexual with another person until you're 18.
Watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y7lYeRqhQ9Q
You should actually talk to a counsellor. You need to sort your issues there and maybe even get domestic/family violence counselling if that's the case.
ReplyI am 18 now, but I remember doing the same thing when I was 13. I was young, I was stupid, but I can't let the past influence how I act now. I can't change what I did, but I can learn from it. I'll give you some advice: If someone asks for nudes, and they're not someone you want to send nudes to, say no (especially to 17 year olds). If they keep asking, you know they are only looking to use you. They are only horny. Legally speaking too, what you did is illegal. Almost everyone has done it, but by law, if you send or receive nudes, and you are under 17, it's considered child pornography. You know what you did is not safe though, and that's very important. That's a great first step. Your body is beautiful, it is you. If you don't like something about it, let us help you. There are steps you can take to make yourself feel better, like exercising, or journaling. I always offer people to join me in working out- it makes it so much better to have a partner with you.
My guidance: delete any nude pictures you have from your phone. You don't know when someone might search through your phone, even innocently. Clear them from your google photos. Reset your history, get a completely new start. Delete this 17 year old (think of it, he has to ask a 14 year old for nudes--- what is wrong with him that he can't get someone his own age, and that he likes child bodies than mature ones?).
If you want to talk, feel free to send me a message anytime :) I have no problem giving out my info here.
ReplyThx and I would love to talk more about it 💕
ReplyAnywhere in particular? I can give my info
Replyhere’s a tip, guys mostly just want sex. They like to manipulate and play head games with you until they get what they want. They use us girls and it hurts. a lot. Don’t fall for their games
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