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i'm very stressed out right now. i always get this stress before new years eve and i got it now because soon it's midsummer and everyone will be out celebrating and drinking. but why am i stressed out? because i don't really have any friends to go anywhere with. my two friends will go with other people and won't invite me. so im probably just gonna sit at home and see on social media how fun everyone's having. the same thing happens at new years eve. everyone's out celebrating with friends and i'm at home. what should i do?
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Please stop seeing social media in holiday season, if it is just making you seem inadequate. Seeing other people celebrate is not helping you in anyway, it is pulling you down.
Instead try to work towards self empowerment. Why don’t you plan to go by yourself somewhere or treat yourself ? This dependency on others for your happiness is adding stress to your life.
Clearly they all are fools for not inviting you, but that doesn’t mean you cannot have fun without them.
ReplyYou can always go out on your own and have a little fun you time. Or if you have a facebook, you can join different groups and go to different events that they have posted on there, just make sure that you go with safety precautions, if you go alone or if you go at all. If you're a little more on the shy side, and you'd really like to just stick to the two friends then you can invite them instead of waiting to be invited. But if they do end up declining for whatever reason then maybe you can hang out with cousins? get to know them a little better than you already do, go out with siblings and just have fun with them, even though they can be a bit much, I think it'll improve your guys' relationships. If you don't like any of those options, you could try and reconnect with people that you've lost touch with, and see if they'd like to chat or hang out. Of course, it won't be immediately, but after you guys chat and get more comfortable. Hopefully, you get your own little adventure and you have a more eventful summer.
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