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So my best friend has gone through a lot. Shes been raped and constantly abused by her ex and dad. It pains me a lot she has consumed drugs and alcohol (shes 16) .
She told me that she has recently been having feelings for me and i have liked her for a longg time. Painfully too long but i didnt tell her because i didnt know if she was into girls. She is.
We started dating and usually when she would get into on of her depressing and chaotic episodes she pushes everyone away by being rude and stuff
She has done it to me a couple of times but i never listen because i know its not really her. Everyone else gets mad and stops talking to her but i never want to do that to her. I dont want her to end up lonely because if she does she wont have no one to blame but herself.
So i have some topics that i dont like talking about or people mentioning because its too much for me. Well when she got into on of her episodes recently she mentioned them and made them worse and pushed everyone button left. She knows how much it hurts to talk about my past and she still decided to mention it and make it hurt worst and i broke up with her..
It was the biggest mistake in my life. I miss her every day. It hurts me that i cant talk to her or hold her. Im willing to forgive her for everything but i know if i get back with her it will cause me more pain and im not sure if i can take it anymore. I try and try to be there for her and help her. I know she has been through alot. And her emotions and how she acts is from trauma and i dont want to be selfish but i need to feel loved to but she doesn't contribute
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i feel you.
If u really want to get back together with her, ask one of her friends to ask her a HYPOTHETICAL question: "if (ur name here) wanted to get back together with u, would u do it?" Make sure he/she says it's hypothetical, so ur reputation isnt damaged. :)
If she says no, then it's okay... there'll be a better girl out there for u anyway. And no harm is done to you in the process.
If she says yes, make sure the friend knows to tell her that you actually do want to be in the relationship again.
good luck!
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