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i need help. is something wrong with me? is this a normal thing to feel this way? or am i just obsessive and crazy?
I've gotten to the point where I'm so lonely that it's a physical pain. it hurts in my chest and it aches. it's not friend wise, cause i can hang out with them whenever. it's a boyfriend wise. call me pathetic, but i really want a boyfriend. and not just for the label. i want one to be able to experience the feelings. i want to make him happy, and i want him to make me happy. i want the real relationships and love. but there's no one. not a single one. and i want it so bad that i begin to look at every guy i come into contact with as a potential victim ahahhaha. but seriously, idk how to explain it, but i begin to think of ways to talk and flirt with them. it's messed up i know. what do i do???? am i broken??
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Replyno I'm a straight female ahaha sorry
ReplyIt's nice having a boyfriend around and I enjoy it when I do, but I also enjoy being single. I think you're normal, NOT pathetic at all.
I honestly think that giving it hyper attention will derail you from getting what you want. If you can learn to be happy with where you are, it will happen. Being hyper focused has a way of pushing what you want away.
But if you're determined, there are always dating websites, though I've never tried it and don't know how safe it is. Good luck!
ReplyMe again... I've noticed that I always meet boyfriends when I'm not looking or "in the market" for one. Never when I'm wanting one.
Replythank you so much!! and that is really good advice on not being hyper focused but i have no idea how to stop it
ReplyI hear you. I'm not sure how to stop it either, unless you can get focused on something else, but it's much easier said than done lol.
ReplyI am male but I feel the same, just I don't see anyone as a potential partner and also never had one or had the feeling someone was interested in me. But I exactly know what you want
Replyyeah I've never had one either. i just don't know what the heck it is im doing wrong
Replykeep talking to her. I sense chemistry
ReplyYou sound so lovely π. Dont rush it , it will definetely happen for you .
I send you my love π₯°
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