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It's obvious when some people wouldn't want the best for you in relationships, success, life and happiness. They do comes from a place of hurt, envy, insecurity and bitterness. There's others who will take it too far and intentionally take things away from others to benefit themselves. This is where it's being extremely selfish and hurtful.
Meanwhile, you're often the one who encourages others and gladly help if it was wanted. You're not bitter towards those you're surrounded by doing well in their love life, goals, success, happiness and life in general. You remain happy for those and wishing those you care about the best in everything. The reason for that is because deep down you know how it feels to be stuck in a bad place and you wouldn't want someone to be in the same position. You're happy when those around you are happy too. People have different goals in life and we shouldn't compare what each person has and don't.
I certainly don't. I have different goals, wants and I take joy in the little things that are much more in depth and meaningful. When I see people hating on each other I see it as a waste of time. I never really hated, envied those for things that are achievable in my own life and this is why I don't feel inferior.
Have a different way of seeing it and naturally I would never want to be exaggeratingly competitive with others. A healthy form of being challenged by others is fine but I often find some going to far with it where it just gets nasty.
I really don't see the point when others are living their life and not hurting anyone on purpose. Who aren't stepping on others in the process to getting to where they want. I guess that's me and how I see it. I think people should be there for each other and help each other, not be against for selfish reasons.
Does it ever suck when people wish you the worst and make you feel as though you don't deserve to be in a better place. I can make you feel you that you deserve less than have a modestly healthy life in every aspect.
All there is to it and it can be unfair.
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