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I guess I’m messed up somehow. Was making plans with a good friend of mine to hang out tomorrow, and we talked pretty late into last night. Haven’t heard back in a long minute and honestly I feel like I’ve said the wrong thing, and I know it’s wrong to expect a super speedy reply, yet I just keep on expecting it. I either get upset or depressed. I don’t know why I’m this way, I just want to be happy. To carry on conversations and not worry about when I get an answer back.
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This sounds like an internal problem. Think about the person, how much you value them and they you. How often have they done something to slight you intentionally? Tell yourself in your head that they aren't trying to hurt you, they care and it will show. You are important to them, it's just that sometimes it takes a bit of time.
Dont beat yourself up, it's just a minor hiccup and we're not infallible.
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