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They say it hurts worse when the say "I don't love you anymore" they say "I still love you our paths just go different directions" is so much easier. Do they take into consideration that the pain is so much longer when you stay "friends". You don't get to go hug them and kiss them and tell them everything about your life you just have to smile and act like nothing is wrong when in reality you are falling apart. When they say "I dont love you anymore" at least you can get mad be so mad with them and be so hurt but you can stop talking to them you dont see them everyday you dont have to see their happiness or their struggles you dont have to watch them cry and wish you could kiss those tears away. Those that say its so much easier to stay friends, don't they know both ends are terrible and heartbreaking and painful in their own right. dont they realize while one may hurt worse the other hurts longer. Or am i just insane does it hurt that much more when they dont love you anymore am I just being a biased ass. Is that glimmer of hope really that helpful or is it more soul destroying. Does it tear you apart from the inside out hoping against hope that love thats still there will overcome the obstacles and create a new relationship with a stronger love than before? Please tell me!?!?
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