Stressed

My mum has finally decided to divorce my dad after about 25 years of not actually being together. As an adult, I’m being dragged into it, my siblings have all moved out, everyone had had enough of the black cloud that hung over the house. And now we have all started our own lives and this is being dragged up. But I’m still at home so I have to help her with all the paper work, she won’t do things herself it’s so frustrating. It’s such a messed up situation, he still lives in the house - in the garage at the back of the garden. He’s a horrible man, he’s been physically abusive to my mum, threatened to kill me once when I was 10, told all of us kids he wants nothing to do with us and that he doesn’t consider us his children. He’s made up lies about my mum being abusive towards him when they were getting divorced years back.