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beauty is everything. the place i come from beauty is given more importance, i guess even if they choose to marry you on their own will. i am married to someone who claims to love me but then is scared to introduce me around because of my looks. god did make me like this and i was confident about it as always when i was single and living in abroad but seems like i am not the favorite one. mocked about my looks every now and then. i should take normally they say. i was asked whose features and skin color did i get because my other family members are fair so why me?
they make fun of me that i look like a jug because of my hip being like one. was asked to reduce weight when i got engaged, yes the very same day :D to look like an film actress. when i was single yes i was upset for the human loss i had but being criticized about my body now and then is upsetting. my food is being kept on track by my mom in law ha ha ha....! no one notices but i do. i wish i could explain someone how hungry i feel when i eat less because i feel she is staring at my plate,i wish i had a husband who would stand up for me when i am body shamed or when i make something with full heart to make him happy and i wish i was fair and thin,may be then i could keep you all happy.
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I think it is really wrong for people to judge someone based on their looks. I mean seriously, that is the most inacurrate thing ever because no one can chose how they look. But you can chose to be nice, to be warm, to live your life how you want it. And yes you can lose weight and gain weight. But will it make you happy? No. It will make them happy. But when you look in the mirror you will feel regret because you lost yourself. I know this is hard but please stand up for yourself. Respect your body and treat it well. Don't starve yourself, don't wish for things to change that you can't. Don't take mean remarks from such empyheaded people. Don't wait for your husband to stand up for you because you can do it yourself.
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