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So I’m 18
Currently my boyfriend is really mad at me for not showing him enough affection telling me that I’m cold and careless and I should change, now he started treating me like I don’t even matter to him, he stopped checking up on me, stopped texting me, he once forgot to even text me,he told me that he’s trying to do what I used to do with him to make me feel the same way he did before, but what is he talking about? I never treated him that way because I wanted to, It was something I couldn’t help with, I avoided checking up on him because I feared bothering him, that’s what I always thought! The more I ask the more I bother him, I always tried my best to text him but I just didn’t want to over do it, we had a fight once and I promised to change, I did change a bit but he never noticed that, it may be not a big change but I made a lot of effort! That’s who I was for my entire life! It is really hard for me to change who I am, when I was a kid I didn’t grow in a loving family my parents got divorced when I was 5, I had to live with my mother’s family and I didn’t really receive that much of love, my father barely checked up on me, my mother would spend all of her time either working or sleeping, I had no siblings to spend time with, and had a hard time making friends, even now I’ve lost most of my friends, before becoming my lover he was once my best friend, we did go along very well that’s why we were both scared of losing each others so we became a couple, we thought it was the best decision but now I’m not sure anymore.
We don’t live in the same city so we barely can meet, he told me he’s going to an event without me, I did feel bad but I wanted to give him space, the event is on Saturday and he works that day I even suggested going in his place to work so he could go and enjoy with his friends but he denied, and the funny part is that on the same night we had a fight and he kept telling me that I’m careless! How come?
One thing that I’m sure about is that I truly love him, I always forgive and forget his mistakes but he never forgets, he keeps on blaming me for things I’ve done before.
He says that he still loves me, but what kind of love is this? I’m really confused.
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I'm not sure how to answer helpfully. trying to get back at you isn't love. at this point I wouldn't stick with him. of course it's your choice tho. I understand you didn't want to bother him. did you tell him that? you should if you havent. see what he says. if he comes back with some mean answer or doesn't even try to understand that then he isn't the one for you
ReplyDon't change for anybody.
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