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A few days ago, I had met one of his bestfriends and started chatting with him, because, why not? The guy seemed very nice and open, and we just chatted about random stuff. Then this guy tells me he's one of my boyfriend's ex's. Now, that threw me a bit off-guard, but I didn't care. But then he told me things about my boyfriend that shocked me, and I learned that my boyfriend lied to me. It wasn't a big lie, but I still felt hurt and angry. I mean, why did he want to lie to me?! I've had bad relationships in the past, but none of my partners had ever lied to me. So, I confront my boyfriend, and I start out slow, when really all I want to do is yell at him. Slowly, as he starts confessing his lies and his guilty nature, my anger starts going away, along with my sadness, disappointment, and any feeling I had at the time. I've never felt like this before during a fight (and trust me, my friends had fights from Saturday to Tuesday, aka that day) and I just brushed it off. So his ex and I continue talking, and then I'm told to stay away from one of my bestest of friends. Now, you'd think I'll feel devasted, or angry, right? No, I felt nothing. I still feel nothing. The only feeling I've felt since Tuesday is happiness and lust. Nothing else. I don't even feel love for my partner anymore, and I just don't get it. Shouldn't I be hurt? Shouldn't I feel sad? I just don't understand, why don't I feel anything? It's been a few days since the fight, and I don't know what to do. My boyfriend has been distant, and his ex told me I shouldn't worry about it too much, but I'm not sure.
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This sort of happened to me. I was really in love with my boyfriend from the past, and we were even talking marriage. I learned some things about him and my feelings for him suddenly disappeared. At least you don't have to go through a painful breakup on your end, if you feel nothing.
ReplySo I'm going to have to break up with him?
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