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I’m not even sure where to begin with this. My friend was dating somebody,
I’ll call him bob for this. Bob and I talked a bit and became friends, but then bob broke it off with my friend. At this point, bob was a closer friend than the other girl had ever been. I wanted to stay friends with both of them, but at the end of the day I chose bob. The rest of the friend group were suddenly interested in bob. They wanted to be his best buddies and video chatted and texted him all the time. Bob is a caring person and was trying to please everybody. The drama escalated and Bob’s ex was upset with us for choosing bob over her. I talked to someone from the friend group about why she’d suddenly wanted to talk to bob so much and she admitted she was jealous of the strong relationship I have with bob. This really upset me, I’m okay with them being friends but I feel almost attacked that I can’t be friends with bob without everybody else wanting to. We have a really unique relationship and I feel it’s very special and I guess I’m just scared he’ll get closer to somebody else and won’t be my friend anymore. Recently I realized that I have some sort of feeling or something, I don’t know. I really care for bob. And we used to talk 24/7, he’d call me a lot when he had a closing shift for the place he works at, we’d stay up talking a lot and talk throughout the day as well. Recently he hasn’t been talking to me as much, whenever I try to start a conversation he either takes forever to reply, acts uninterested, or just blatantly leaves me on read. I’m afraid he doesn’t want to be my friend anymore, and I feel insecure and think he’s talking to his others friends and ignoring me. I hate this jealous and insecure feeling I have, it’s so freaking annoying and I’m sick of it and don’t want to be that person. I hate this so much.
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Maybe he feels suffocated? In your friendship I mean. You should try to tell yourself that he's not going to leave you even though he will have a lot of friends along the way. Try to talk to him about this issue and how you feel. Maybe he would understand where you're coming from and you would regain your old friendship with much more strength than before. You can do this.
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