What are you looking for?
Featured Topics
Select a topic to start reading.
Hi, I was going to bed when it suddenly hit me : being single is sad.
I'm 23 I'm living at my parent's house and I need to say that right now my life situation kinda sucks. I've been here since I graduated from university in 2017, before that I lived with flatmates and stuff and was always surrounded with friends, right now people I know live far and I'm kinda stuck here studying web development in order to finally get a job that will be exciting. I worked in a supermarket for a year. Right now all I want is to get a job in the field I like and move out of my parent's house, move to another country and do social stuff again. Date again(even though I am afraid of the process cause it has been almost 3 years since I dated someone) and find a girl to be with, to exchange with about all the things she likes and learn about them as well as share the stuff that I enjoy in life and that I find exciting. This is the first time that I write something that is going through my mind like this, it feels weird but also reliving at the same time. I hope I can find some sleep and keep going forward now. Thanks for reading.
If you see a comment that is unsupportive or unfriendly, please report it using the flag button.
More Posts
-
I'm a failure...
I'm lost... Everything is going wrong I failed college , I don't have friends , I've never been in a relationship although I'm 20 . I feel like I'm useless I wa...
-
Hobbies
Anyone know of any hobbies that don't cost a lot, will allow me to be social and will fit in with my single mum life? I feel like I am dying slowly atm....
U know that sometimes we really feel lost and we need someone in our love life just to share things with them. Its just how crazy life is ,i really think u should focus studying and getting a job once u start working u will see life in a more openminded way and love will find u im sure about that.just try to stay calm as u pasa thru this strom cuz u are so going to find evrything u wishes even tho its hard
ReplyLove sucks. You're happier alone than dealing with the high lows of emotions.
ReplyI'm older and can tell you that, when I was young like you, I struggled too. Also, over the years, I've learned that MOST of the people I associate with struggled in their younger years.
At the time, I was a little upset about it all but, now looking back, I always laugh at that time in my life and share some interesting and funny stories with others.
The good news, though, is that at that time for me I was working hard to better myself and it sounds like you're doing the same. Whatever it is you're going through is all temporary, friend. In time your hard work will pay off and you'll be rewarded for your efforts.
If you think you'll still be at your parent's house for a good while, you may want to take a break from both work and school for a few days to go visit those old friends of yours. I know they are far away but it really sounds like you need a break.
After school, I'm guessing you'll move on and start coding in HTML, CSS, and PHP. There's good money to be had in that.
Once you get ready to date - I have no advice other than to be yourself. Don't get anxiety and think that everything has to be perfect because, if you try to hard, something will surly go wrong. Just go slow and enjoy your time together. If there isn't a second date, don't let that get you down. Someone else will jump at the chance to go on a date with you.
Hope you found the rest you were looking for and that you get the break you desperately need.
Good Luck!
Bucko
ReplyThis is so cliché but focus on yourself and achieve your personal goals. I was in a relationship with a guy who keep breaking things off to focus on himself when in reality, he should've done that before hand and then after getting his life together, start dating. This stuff really does get to you. Hold on for a little longer because its honestly worth the wait, I can promise you that. I'm only 19 so I am pretty young to be giving relationship advice, but I was with a guy who was so confused and stressed in life, it took a toll on me too. Do you and honestly focus on yourself
Reply