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She is quite reserved to people and she gives the cold treatment to everybody. Even to her friends she still doesn't show any affections towards them. She is a mysterious person. I think she doesn't give a dmn to anything or that what she wants to show people. That's why I had an interest to her, not romantically but I just want to see her soft side Or things she do that she doesn't show to anybody. I know it will take years or a long time for her to see me I'm here but I willing to wait for that long. So guys any suggestions to get closer to her?
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Express interest. Talk to her, even if she's cold. Don't harass her or anything, just be persistent & genuine in your attempts to speak to her.
Remember that she's a human being, a person just like you. Not just a mystery to be solved.
ReplyThanks you for the advice 🙇
ReplyStalk her, that is what I would do. Find her on social media, follow her, and know what places she likes and what hobbies she likes. Do a research/study on that what interests her. Find a common similarity, talk...Sit together, say "Hey" OR become friends with her friends first, somehow enter her friend group...
ReplyHmm maybe that would work but I don't know her socials or if she has one hahaha. Thanks for the tip
ReplyShe sounds like me, alot...and if she is making it difficult for people to get close to her then you got your work cut out for you because she probably has had bad experiences with people in the past that have caused her to become like that.
I can tell you that showing no affection to others, especially people whom she really should have affection for (close friends, family etc) is a big sign that she has probably been fucked up by "close" friends/family in some way in her past.
People who are always cold, even vicious towards other people, all the time are usually that way for good reason...and speaking from experience, if she is like me, she more than likely despises everyone whether they deserve it or not
ReplyI've been like that before, I build my own walls because I don't want people to get closer to me because I don't want to get hurt. I've been hurt so many times by the people closer to me. my own family, especially my Parents if my family treated me badly then what more I expect to people who I'm not related to. By building those walls i didn't realize I trapped myself inside my own walls.
Your right, every person has it reason why they become the person they are now.
ReplyUmm do you have any tips to star a conversation with her? If you reply to this I truly appreciate it
Replytry gaining her trust as a friend and going from there. every girl wants at least one person we can trust no matter what. be that for her. show her over and over again that ur perfectly ok with her and she can come to u no matter what.
ReplyThank youuu
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