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My boyfriend told me that he dreamt about flirting and dating a girl that wasnt me. Im not sure how to react and what to think of it. I generally trust him though... and ig its human nature idk... but ig im really jealous and a bit hurt and at a loss about what to do. Am i thinking too much into it?
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ReplyExcuse me for being dramatic
ReplyThat sounds like him trying to tell you politely that he wants out, I mean why tf would he say that. Or he likes seeing you hurt and jealous? I appreciate his honesty but he legit wants out if he is out here dreaming about other girls.
ReplyThere's a difference between thinking about something and acting on it. A lot of people do have fantasies and dreams about others and the whole 'What if?' scenario. It's whether or not he tries to make it a reality that matters.
ReplyPlease elaborate. We would like to know how to deal with our feelings when we are hurt by our boyfriends' fantasies. The person writing the post obviously knows it is just a fantasy but it is also a red flag that he is losing interest in her or is not sexually satisfied.
Reply* because I have been through this and believe me, that was the sole reason for our breakup. I mean why keep the relationship when you are more interested in others than your own partner? Because then one would have their eyes on others than their partner. Majority of men try to act on their fantasies in some form or the other. Basically when her bf told her he fantasies on other women, he might have indirectly tried to convey that he isn't sexually satisfied.
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