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1. Why do people claim to have such high morals and yet, they take advantage of others or cause harm to others themselves? Some even state they're such a good and honest person, but when it comes down to it they're not. They see something wrong being done which is actively harmful to others, impacting their life in a negative way and still turn a blind eye?
2. Why is that when someone has a problem with you over something but never can confront you about the issue? If their telling everyone that you're the alleged "perpetrator" and their the victim, why are they scared to come forward and speak to you like an adult? Why go around spreading rumors, voicing their opinion about you to everyone else but never not once came forward and spoken to you about what they accuse you of or "supposedly" done to them?
3. Why do we have people that expect you to always be honest and truthful towards them, but when the tables turn they're dishonest and conceal the truth from you by leaving you in the dark?
4. Why can't majority of people grasp the concept of minding their own business when they don't have anything good to offer by helping or don't have good intentions to improving the situation? Why do the most irrelevant people get involved in other people's affairs and intrude when it has nothing to do with them in the first place?
5. Why is the wicked,cruel and unempathetic get away with doing harm without any remorse, but the people who are genuinely good which have made mistakes get scrutinized, dehumanized and punished as if their the monster from the wrongs that they're sorry for?
6. Why do people who know absolutely nothing about your life,who you are and what experiences you gone through make quick judgements about your character? Funny how the very same people will say to keep an open-mind, not to criticize and judge a book by its cover as you give them the benefit of the doubt.
7. Why do people tell you to love yourself ( in a healthy way),do what you love(without hurting or stepping on others to get there) and be your true self but turn around mock you by telling you how you should be,how you should look,what to wear, how to act,what to say,what to do etc...?
_- Jas
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Reply1. We are the most destructive life force that walks and breathes over this earth. At the end of the day it all comes down to our egos and how we (or at least most of us) will always caress that aspect of our lives above all. Humans cling so hard into self preservation. Completely ignorant of our action towards others around us.
2. People do this out of a combination of cowardice, fear, and self-preservation. It is easier to approach an issue with the moral support of a group than alone. We all know this feeling if we have experienced fear over something in our lives. Even if you don't feel this way, this is how most people react and feel about it. People are terrified of facing their fears, let alone, facing them alone.
3. Because most of us expect from others what we are not willing to give ourselves. Yes, we are are very unfair and selfish. This is just as plain, simple, and sad.
4. Due to many factors. A person can picture themselves as a good friend of yours while you don't think that highly of them. Also, people have a self gratifying sense that would get them involved into helping others. Just for the knowledge they "know" they might be making the difference in someone else's life. I have also learned that people will not give you an advise they are willing to take to themselves, at least most of the time. People are selfish.
5. It is wrong either way. But this is why the bad idea that do wrong and don't care about it prevails. Because we live in a society where those who follow selfish patterns prevail. Where people do things for their sole benefit at the expense of others, and that is ok. There are no consequences to face and therefore, what's there to stop you from going on? I know it sounds cruel, but life is cruel, isn't it?
6. Because it makes people thing they are in control. Not only of their lives but of yours in some degree. It is part of the greater scheme of playing the status game. If I know better about the order of things in my life and can provide you with valuable advise on how to go about your own, it means I am in a better position. It is all about me, me, and me. It is all about being the most Zen person. I can undergo any life situation and get a good review out of the experience. And most people think they can figure other outs with little to none observation.
7. Because some people are not real. They will tell you to do what you are looking to hear. They will tell you what THEY think it is the "proper" or the "best" course of action for your betterment based on what society would dictate, even of they don't believe that themselves. In other words, a common case of hypocrisy found nowadays.
People aren't real anymore, it becomes harder everyday to find people that are worth something in this life..
-G
ReplyThe best post I've ever read online, pretty much covered all angles of my own issues.
Thank you :) both Jas & G , for the raised questions and answers too.
:)
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