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So im in a groupd of friends and one of thr guys has a crush on me and has had one for about 2-3 years and well i dont know how to tell him im lesbian. Im out as bi and no one rly knows im lesbian. I wanna tell him but im not 100% sure and dont wanna be wrong about this. Hes rly fun n cute and i love him with all my heart just not like that. I feel horrible if im leading him on in any form or way because we all (group) play flirt all yhe time
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I know you said that you're not sure if you're lesbian, and that's okay, but you may as well tell him that you are anway. I'm just saying since you DO know for sure that you don't like HIM that way..
Or else just be straight up honest. Like either one works. In the first method, since yal are already friends, maybe you can just casually be like "I'm not into dudes lol" or something.
But if you fear like you might possibly end up liking a boy one day and it breaks his heart, then maybe use the second method of just being straight up honest. So INSTEAD you would say "I don't THINK I'm into dudes. I think I only like girls in that way" or whatever... idk, i hope this helps! (: good luck <3
ReplyTell him how you feel. It's ok if you tell him if you want to be just friends, it's more fun to be just friends than a one sided romantic relationship. Just make sure to let him down slowly, and show him sympathy. Tell him all the things you like about him, and say you want to hang with him still.
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