Emotionally Neglected

I'm 10 and I'm already stressed out. I know it's strange, but too many things are happening at once and I can't handle it. First and foremost, I was born into an Islamic family and my mum and dad expect me to pray and learn more chapters of the Quran than I can remember! Plus I have to learn additional prayers, and there are so many. When your drinking milk, there's a prayer, and when you are mad, there's a prayer! How will I ever cope? Then there's that critism about the way I dress. It's not 'Islamic'. So what I don't want to wear abaya yet? There is literally no evidence that I have to wear an abaya all the time. Islam clearly states that I have to cover all of my body except for my hands and face. That's exactly what I do. Long sleeved top and ankle length skirt. And I don't wear a scarf yet because I don't want to 'suddenly' wear a scarf. In Secondary, I promised them. For now I'll my hair out as short hair doesn't work as a ponytail for me. And, yup, they critise me about that too. What I eat, where I go, critism! And they blame me for having a headache, and it could be serious. I almost fell off the bed today as I was in my mum's bed and she almos kicked me off because I had a seriously painful 3-day long headache. Because of her, I cry almost everyday. She says she loves me, but it doesn't feel like it.