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Thoughts on romantic relationships and its purpose in life
5 years ago · 1 · Thoughts, +5 · Explicit
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I'm perturbed but not necessarily in a bad way. Tell me what y'all think. But sorry if it sounds stupid
Sexual attraction is a natural thing. Pretty much allows us to continue as a species. Without it, it would be very difficult to survive. I've never had a relationship. Never kissed, never held hands, never really even hugged. Perhaps this fueled my thinking. I was often, intrigued with the nature of being attracted to someone. I've had a real crush only once in my life. I remember the feeling. Being motivated to go to school just to see her, her personality, her looks, getting excited when I had a class with her and hoping she would be paired up with me. Didn't think to much about it other than the that she was "really cute" I am older now and have never really been attracted to someone like I was to her. What is this desire? What is it about wanting to spend you're life with them? You feel this way with friendships but it's different in romantic feelings. My parents, how did they feel when they started dating and got married? My brother, how does he see his wife? My sisters, what attracted them to their partners? What is it? What is love in general? Romantic attraction keeps us going as a species. But what if your significant other dies or can no longer be with you? You still think about them, love them. Is it something to do with our very fiber of being? To have an attraction to another being. I have concluded that for me, despite me wanting it desperately, love to be a second most important thing. I feel I need to avoid any attraction to anyone. Possibly I feel it would impede me in my goals. Perhaps it will strengthen me emotionally?
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