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hi, i am a 26 years old girl. I've been single for like 3 years and over time i have made myself so strong that i didn't need anyone for me and I had isolated myself for quiet a long time and lost a couple of friends which i don't regret. but now its been some 2 months i have started talking to a guy. He is very nice and understanding. and somehow i developed a habit of talking to him daily , you know we used to talk till 6 o clock in the morning .it all went so well and i was so happy . but from past 1 week or 2 , something has changed.he texts me after 1 or 2 hours .sometimes i feel like he cares for me , sometimes it feels the opposite. .. And i feel so stupid sometimes for waiting for his messages and calls. i feel like i am the only one who cares and he has taken me for granted. i was doing so good before without anyone and now i feel like i need someone and i hate that feeling.i feel like i have made myself weak. i feel like an idiot for letting someone enter my life and affect me like that. i getting insane. i have talked to him about this and he said everything is same and nothing has changed but i can feel it ...i can feel the way things used to be and how they are now.
what should i do. I hate this feeling of needing and wanting to talk to someone.how to get out of this feeling.if anyone could help me then please....
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You're not an idiot, and a woman's intuition is very rarely wrong. We feel the distance, it's undeniable, and cuts like a knife. You deserve something you can be sure of. A real love that doesn't leave you anxiously wondering. Focus on YOU & self care!
It may sound silly, but it helps me to get immersed in a story or a fantasy. Maybe even fall in love with a fictional character and spend my days fantasizing of someone who'd love me exactly to my standards- Before I know it, the boy I'm stressing over seems like a complete tool in comparison. Maybe not the healthiest option... But it gets the job done (& the creative juices flowing). :) Best of luck to you love.
ReplyThank you so much..i kind of liked your advice though
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