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Quite honestly, this "crush" feels like a curse. Ever since I've gotten this crush, I haven't been able to keep any of my relationships (I've had two since this "crush" started, it ruins it). The person I have a crush on is genuinely both the best but worst to have a crush on. It started with him hating me, but I never hated him. I decided to make it my goal to be friends with him, no matter what. Then that's when I realized I had a crush on him, and I don't even know why. I felt a pull towards him for no reason, and I didn't want to feel this way at all. I tried to deny it, but it didn't work, at all. So, I accepted it. But now, after two failed relationships, and currently in a third with my bestfriend who's liked me for a whole year, I don't know how to move on! I tried to think of him as the worst person ever, but whenever I do, it feels like my literal S O U L is being dragged into lava, and it hurts so badly. I don't know how to move on, and I don't want to have a crush on him. If things were different, and he liked me back, then sure, why not, but he said so himself that he didn't feel the same. It hurts so badly, and it's lasted longer than any of my other crushes. I really don't know what to do, I feel so hopeless...
Please give me some advice, I'm in desperate need of it right now.
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Hello! I have been in similar, yet less drastic situations. I once had a crush on someone, but then they decided they were gay, but I couldn't stop thinking of them. I did eventually get over that, but I've been friends with them anyways and that's probably my best guess for you. I'm not even close to an expert but I suggest you keep talking to them, what do they like? What do you like? Find similarities and differences and appreciate being with them. Maybe if you keep being friendly, but not overly flirty, you could grow on them and possibly it could become a 'fairy take ending'. I understand it will be hard sometimes to stay "friend zoned", but definitely don't cut them off even if they don't develop feelings for you. Perhaps you'll find someone even better and you guys can still be friends. Once again, I'm no means an expert, but I hope this helps :)
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