Walk a mile in my shoes but you really can't.

I strongly believe that alot of people need to mind their own business when they have nothing positive and constructive to offer in regards to my life. People's opinions, assumptions, about me or my life are either irrelevant and invaild in most cases.

An opinion isn't a fact.

Seeking information about me from others is seeing their own perspective of me but not entirely of whom I really am. If you want to know me you get to know me personally in a respectful way. Anyone with common sense would know that if you want the truth or know something you go directly to the source. I won't just let anyone sit at my table and i'm entitled to let in whom I want or don't want in my life. I can cut anyone out of my life permanently if I wanted to and it wouldn't take much for me to do it either. I don't need fake people in my life, this is what makes me cautious and picky when it comes to friendships and relationships.

I could see why how this would make me seem stuck up, snobby and cold towards others.

It's MY life.

I can do what I want with my life because I'm an adult and I make my own choices. If I'm not hurting anyone that is directly or personally impacting their life but my own, what's it to them?

I'm allowed to have privacy, space, share what I want to share with others in regards to myself and life. If I don't want to share with anyone about my personal matters or anything that involves me, I'm under no obligation in doing so.

For alot of people it's a hard pill to swollow and take can be taken in an offensive manner if i don't share every detail of my life.

People who dig into my personal affairs have no right in doing so and don't respect MY boundaries whatsoever. It's sad to see grown adults have no idea what they're talking about when it comes to another person's life and what they've been through. You can tell by the way they speak of you and tell that there's so much ignorance.

It's not the same as speak of someone in a sense of what you experienced with them.

That's why it best not to talk about someone else and their life in the first place. Unless, you really know them personally on a deeper level or they'd shared with you what's going on it best be careful what you say.

It's ridiculous seeing people try so hard to figure you out, act and pretend they know it all about you but in reality don't.

You can try and walk a mile in my shoes but you just can't.

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