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I can't stop sexting..... sending nudes and receiving them. I just am so disgusted with myself. I'm going to delete the app im using but idk. I hate my life. Why am I doing this to myself? God sees me like a slut, disappointment, and not worth it. I can't even think anymore. I need help but I'm afraid.
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ReplyAlthough less than a Christian, more than an Atheist, God would never view you as a disappointment. At least the God I want to believe in wouldn't discard you, so casually.
You want love. You want a connection that feels important and you feel that connection when you send something that draws attention to yourself. You crave the desire of love, but all you get is lust.
I think you already know what you need to do. You need to disconnect from anything that would compel you to send compromising images of yourself. Instead of chat apps, look for actual group meetups that encourage you to meet with people in a friendly, relaxed environment - Like to go bowling or meet ups to play boardgames. I've met some of the best people in my life at those types of gathering.
Don't look for love - Look for friends. Real friends.
Replyhey girl... I've been facing the same problem recently... sorry ur dealing with this too :(((( i think u are making the right decision in deleting the app... do it for ur sake.. its clear u don't want to do this... what i did was i had to find something else to distract me.. it really helped to talk to my therapist and my parents about it.... it was frightening to bring up 2 them... especially since it was the 3rd time.... :(( but im doing better now....don't think God hates you.. God luvs everyone! Talk 2 someone you can about this... What my therapist told me was once you start getting the help you need for your problem it will be less scary to take about.. and we can find a solution <33333 luv u xoxox -Elice
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ReplyThis is truly bothering you so I'm not trying to make light of the situation but the truth is that many, many people send and receive nudes.
My wife and I are swingers and you'd be very surprised at some of the caliber of people we've had interactions with and stories and pictures they've shared. And, on the next day, they get up and put on a suit and tie and go to work with a smile on their faces, polite as can be, and get good work done while no one else in the office could even suspect such a thing about this man. And the wife, dressed nice, hangs out with her girlfriends telling them about the little kid's birthday party she took her daughter to last weekend and again, those friends are none the wiser.
I say this only to make you realize that just because you've been sexting, you probably shouldn't beat yourself up over it. Don't think that you're any less of a person because you've done something you feel is a mistake. I'm sure your a good person and I know you can enjoy life even though you've done such a thing.
It sounds, of course, like it's something you don't want to do so we can only hope this isn't an addiction for you so will be something you can walk away from. You mentioned deleting your app and that is certainly a huge step in the right direction. If you aren't addicted, you'll easily be able to walk away from it all.
But why did you start this in the first place, maybe because you thought it would be fun? Possibly. And why did you continue to do it? Maybe because you love the attention you get when you share such images of yourself? I don't know, I can only speculate but if I was forced to place a wager on this, I'd bet that's what happened.
As suggested by others, you can certainly find other ways to get enjoyment out of life. A group of friends in any environment can lead to a special someone that you'll trust, enjoy the company, and fall in love with. Or, if nothing else, a group of friends can be gained and there's certainly nothing wrong with that.
I hate to hear that you've made choices that you're now regretting but glad to know you're realizing that it isn't fun for you any more and that you want to do something about it. It certainly isn't for everyone and good to know that you're making the decision that's right for you!
Good Luck!
Bucko
ReplyDelete the application will be the first step, and then just forget about those thins, happiness doesn't only come from one thing. you can fin what makes you smile other than that, maybe start finding some friends, hangout and just basically have fun! it's like a person trying to stop smoking, might be hard at first but you can stop now before it takes it's toll.
Good Luck for the future!
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