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I know this isn’t what most people use novni for but I need advice I think I might be gay one of my parents is extremely homophobic so I could never talk to them and I’m just stuck and confused so please comment with advice
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That’s horrible if a parent can’t support their own child for being who they are. Don’t be afraid to embrace your sexuality because of what others might think of you/ say about you. Sometimes it may take time for a parent to fully comprehend that their child isn’t straight but they usually come around. A real parent will always love you no matter what. Whenever you’re ready, you tell them.
Reply“I need to tell you something and I’m just going to come right out and say it. I’m gay. But before you say anything, let me finish. I understand you have been planning out my future in your head since the day you found out you were pregnant. And I’m sure that future didn’t involve me being gay. I know it must hurt you and I promise that is not what I want to do. I know you love me more than I’ll probably ever fully understand but if you really love me, you’ll love me unconditionally, gay or straight. You can deny it, you can refuse to accept it, and you can sabotage our relationship if you want. That’s common with family of gay people. But you can’t change it. No amount of crying, begging and bargaining, denying, rejecting, none of that will change who I am. It’s not going to go away. So I’m asking you to please just keep loving me because I love you. You don’t have to understand. You don’t even have to agree or accept. I just want you to continue to love me unconditionally.”
ReplyHmm I'm gonna give you some golden advice. Do not care what others think of you. It works wonders.
ReplyBe you boo! if people don't agree then be like, "I know who and what I am and you're not going to bring me down! " Yes it will take time for people to understand but it doesn't matter as long as you continue being you. I wish you luck and the best
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