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i'm 14 and my girlfriend is 17. she graduates highschool in june, i'm just starting highschool.
i tried coming out to my parents about being bi. i had also wanted to apologize for lying to them about some things. they said i was just being vulnerable and stupid, and that she was just using me for something. this part confuses me because so many people are romantically attracted to her, hell, she has a line of people just waiting to be hers. so why would she play me?
i'm a failure to my parents. they told me to stop talking to her, so i did my best to. i went 1 week without explaining or talking to her, but she tried so hard to to talk to me and understand what's wrong.
my parents live by this (especially my dad): you mess up once, maybe i'll forgive you, but you lost my trust and have to earn it. after i give you the last chance, that's it. no more chances. so don't mess up.
things started to get better with my parents, and i thought it would be okay to talk to her again.
my dad saw that she sent me 3 texts. he hasn't confronted me about it, but ever since he saw it he's treated me like a stranger: barely talks or looks at me (if he does, he's angry and sad), when i try to hug him he pulls away fast and barely hugs, i try to talk to him and he replies short and blunt. The morning he saw the texts, before he dropped me off to school he said, “you’ve lost my trust, if you lose my respect, you’re out of the house.”
i fucked up bad. i ruined the family because i love a girl (I shouldn't) so much. Do i break up with her ? do i fight for something? I’m crying, my heart feels like it’s being torn to shreds. My gf and i have pushed through many rough patches.
I don’t want to lose the people i’ve been with my whole life, but i don’t want to lose the person i want to spend the rest of my life with.
i'm probably weak and a disappointment, but all week i've been wanting to swallow all the benadryl pills i own and whatever drowsy medicine i can find.
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Screw them parents. They should accept of who you are. If they can't accept that you are bi because of beliefs then you get away from them and go be with your girlfriend. I am trans but kept it a secret. My dad knows that I am trans but isn't like against it or anything. My mom probably is.
Replythanks for commenting.. i'm just scared since i'm young and i'm dependent on my parents for somethings... but thank you
ReplyNo problem. I wanted people to comment on my posts but only if I were lucky enough. I'm dependent on my parents too. Scared of facing the real world.
Replyi genuinely want to see your posts !! yeah... i feel that
ReplyIt would be nice to see a non Guest user's posts but my posts are like different from anyone's posts. I created some yesterday.
Replyyou know what i say....
Fuck the system. parents don't know shit. I'm pansexual and I don't give a eff cuz nobody other than me an my friends should care. i've dated girls and boys. i liked both just the same. If your dad want to kick you out of the house, let him. just go to your gf's house and live in her backyard. :3
but no joke, if you love her and she loves you, it doesn't matter that in a year that will be illegal because she'll be 18 and you'll still be a minor :) okay nvm maybe that will matter xD but who cares. my stepmom saw a video my friends took of me and my ex making out and they went ballistic. but i just yelled back cuz i'm a badass okay don't quote me on that. (and also please don't let your friends take videos of you and your gf making out that's not a good idea I'm a bad example shhh)
Replyfirst off, i'm so glad i'm not the only one who uses "xD" haha... yeah the two of us talked about the whole adult/minor thing, and we've sorted some things out :D
Replyokay that's good. i think it's legal as long as you two don't do anything sexual, but i'm not actually sure.
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