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it's hard for me to express my current feelings. I can't even make up my mind to type. Let me begin to say my parents disapprove the girl I chose to marry. It happened 18 months ago. Though my persistence led to marriage 14 months ago, no wedding has been held for us, except for a very concise party. My parents, especially mention the financial crisis and their limit funds, and simultaneously insist that a wedding party must be held.
My wife and I have been staying in separate dormitories and she is exhausted of the situation. She now wants me to either abandon my parents and join him on migration to Canada or a separation. Two married siblings of her are living there and she counts on them.
My feelings and my responsibility towards them has become cloudy through the events of my marriage. They simply neglect my wife, and this is so hurtful for both of us. I've been trying to find a solution and change my parents' attitude but it was no use. They think of me as a inexperienced child of theirs who will always be dependent on them, and my wife as an evil.
I choose my wife and just hope if they show up supportive. But my Ph.D. course will probably last 12 to 18 months and I simply can't put my teenage sister and old parents behind.
I'd be glad to hear any advises from you.
Thank you.
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Tell your parents how you feel. Then tell your wife. Everything will work out.
ReplyYou are making the right decision. You are not married to your parents. And as soon as you agreed to be her husband, she became THE top priority in your life. You are not choosing between your wife or your parents... you are choosing YOUR life.
I understand that you are young and might have trouble speaking up to your parents BUT, it is never okay for your parents or anyone in your family to be disrespectful to your wife. And you should let them know that.
Your wife comes first, not your parents.
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