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November 11, 2019
This past week has been of the most trying weeks I’ve had in a while. I wonder why is it that when we as humans ask for things it seems to be hard for some to handle. I get it that we become complacent in life and become ok with people acting and treating us a certain way but then there comes a time in life where you say enough is enough. It is our fault for enabling it because we didn’t stop it or correct it in the beginning and that makes them feel like they can keep going and nothing would ever happen because it didn’t in the beginning so why would you start now. Well guess what? People grow up and realize that what they have been enduring is not ok and that things need to change. We stand up for ourselves and then they are the ones who are unhappy or feel like they have been wronged. Newsflash the victims of your bull are unhappy as well because we’ve been going through this for the sake of our relationship and believing that you would change. Millions of prayers have been sent up praying you would change because you are worth it and we deserve to be happy together because life is meant to be enjoyed. You go out and do things that just breaks all trust or you yell at us or hit us and we still stay. Why? Love is why because we always believe we can love the “hell” out of someone but when they feel that they are being held back from what’s in the world what do you do? You cry because it’s a hurtful thing to know that the person you are with doesn’t want to be with you anymore. The thing about this world is that it is cruel and some of the people in it are cruel as well. Social media has made it worst and has destroyed so many lives and continues to take names because it knows that some have no type of control and they live based on what others think of them. So the hurt gets worse and you cant put it out there for the whole world to see because they judge and then it makes it worse because you truly look weak and stupid online and you don’t want all that bad energy in your life because trust me your offender wont care they will probably be relieved that you brought it out for the world so that they can continue to do what they’ve always done. People who hurt you are not truly happy with who they are but instead of them say that they mistreat you or tell you your faults to cover up their own. How mature of them to see your shortcomings but won’t admit their own. Waiting for someone to admit their wrong is like waiting for a rat to give birth to a puppy, it won’t happen. It’s pointless to think it will happen. I feel it can happen but each person should be willing to truly admit their faults and be willing to except each other’s faults. Call me crazy but I do believe any situation can get better but everyone has to work on themselves. Offenders have to understand that they are not always the victim, most of the time they are not the victim they just want a reason to be upset so that they can treat someone the way they do and not understand why they may leave or kick them out. Why is it not ever your fault? Why are you always the one being hurt and not the one that you hurt? When will people grow up and realize that this life is not forever and wasting time not doing the right thing will only make time shorter. Love is a powerful thing but can also be a dangerous thing in relationships. When you are being taken for granted and finally realize it you end up doing things that you could regret but then again maybe not. I say maybe not because there are some who become weak and allow their emotions to get the best of them and causes them to do something they may regret. Some are strong enough as well to just say enough is enough and then make the decision to walk away forever and not even look back. Most of the time the offender does not care because they are selfish and have no cares for the person from the beginning they just like what that person brought to the table but once another entrée is being served they no longer care for what is being presented to them by the first person because that second entrée seemed more appetizing but little do they know there is a secret ingredient in that second entrée that will eventually harm them in some way or kill them. Be careful offenders because you reap what you sow. I am a person who believes in karma so when you have offended a person for so long please, please, please expect for the shoe to be on the other foot and I do hope you are strong enough to wear those shoes well because it’s going to hurt and its going to hurt bad.
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