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So one of my best friends is Latina and is kind of racist towards white people which is what I am. She'll just all the time say towards random people she doesn't know "ugh, I hate white people." And she has this thing where she says "I can't like boys with light eyes and light hair." And she constantly says these things. And I'm over here like hello, I'm white with light eyes. Do you hate me? And of course if I went around saying "oh I hate brown people" she would freak out. Idk what to do because it's not okay and it really hurts me.
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If she says she hate you, then that different. Don't talk to her would be easy way out tbh.
ReplyIt is also understandable though to be worried. If they make fun of someone who is technically under a label you are in, it makes you wonder. It is OK to ask the person. They ARE your best friend, and you should find comfort in being able to mention these things to them. Usually the best solution is through communication. Just let her know how you feel and know that no matter the outcome it will be OK
ReplyThere are people who exist who don't believe racism against white people exists. Go to Japan and see it for yourself. The fact of the matter is that if she says things that hurt you and persists despite asking her to stop, she isn't a good friend. Look, preferring to date within your own race is fine. Nothing wrong with that. But why does she hate white people? Is it political? Was she hurt by anyone who was white? If she is friends with you, you could probably assume she doesn't hate you. It's possible she is oblivious to the effect her comments have on you. You could try talking to her, but if she isn't going to change her behaviour, you need to think about whether you still want to be friends with her or not.
ReplyIn my opinion, i think you should just tell her "hey i really think you should stop saying those things, it hurts people and me, because im white too." Dont care if she gets mean to you, she should know how she treats people with being racist which is such a disgusting thing. I hope this gets better, truly. If not just leave her cause she might not be a good friend.
ReplyYeah ive been around many RACIST latino/Latinas against white people and been treated unfairly by them mocked harassed bullied etc. They had the "I'm all that and youre nothing" attitude. Ok If that's the case WHY DIDN'T YOU JUST STAY IN YOUR OWN FKN COUNTRY THEN!!!! If I called them fkn spicks they wouldve freaked out too. They hide behind their language barrier even though i know some of it. I'm not RACIST but if they come to our country they should not be RACIST against white people.
ReplyThat is true but maybe you shouldn't be racist towards them as well
ReplyIt might be due to her own experience of being discriminated against or seeing other Latina's receive racist comments, that make her think its okay for her to say it back. You can have a discussion with her and tell her its not okay, tell her how you are feeling.
ReplyIt's not nice to do that even if you are black because everyone has feelings
ReplyI think everyone is beautiful
ReplyTalk to her in private calmly about how you feel. It can be awkward or hard but you will get through it. I have been there before.
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