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I want to be mad at you. You are replacing my mother, but I know you are not. She is gone. Dead. It is unfair of me to expect you to never move on. But she is still my Mother, and now you are in love with another woman and it is hard for me to be happy. I am happy for you, don't get me wrong, but I am unhappy for me because this woman is not my mother. I know she will never replace my mother, but I still feel as if I accept this new person as my step-mom, I am replacing my biological mother. That is the last thing in this whole entire world I want to do. I want my REAL mother to be there to see me graduate, help me plan my wedding, help me decorate my new house I will have someday. I want my REAL mother help teach me how to raise a child. Now this new person is to do it. I just need time to accept it, but they are moving so quickly, I feel as if I am drowning in it. They are a freight train and I am running to catch up. I want my father to wait to get married until I move out, (which is next fall). But my father said he is not going to wait that long. He called me selfish for wanting this. I'm not though, right? HELP PLEASE!
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No one can ever replace your mom and I'm sure this lady and your dad know this. Your mom will be there for you during all of these events in your life just not physically her spirit will be there right by your side at your best and lowest moments. To accept this lady into your life is not a sense of replacement but rather just a new person apart of it. To share it not to take it. Your not selfish for having these thoughts. Everyone moves at their own pace in life and your real mom will be with you every step of it. She wont be upset with you. So just take your time to process it will be ok. Keep her memory alive in your heart and her spirit will never leave you.
ReplySee that's the thing. I know she can't but I still feel like I am. And then I feel bad because I know I don't need to think that. And I know I'm not being selfish, but my dad literally said that out loud, like literally told me that, and I felt awful.
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