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My religion has always been a big part of my life. From day 1, I was taught how to dress, what to wear, what to say, and even what to think. All of my family including extended family follow this religion, and I don't have any family members who don't. There has always been so much pressure on me to do the right thing, according to my religion. But, as I've gotten older, I've really started to question several of the things taught in my church, and I don't want to keep pretending to believe in something that my heart is not in. But I'm so scared to go against my family.
My mom and I have always been super close. She believes in this religion and expects me to marry in the church, have a big family with lots of kids, and most likely be a housewife. That's just what is traditionally done. She honestly believes that is what will make me the happiest. I'm not really down for that kind of life.
I want to be a touring musician, and I don't even really want to get married. That might change later (I'm still in 8th grade) but this is a dream I've had since I was 5 years old.
I feel really pressured by everyone around me to accept the church. It's just what's "normal". I don't feel like I belong or can relate to a lot of my family members, and if I step outside of their "normal", I won't be accepted. If you made it this far, thank you.
Looking for some advice,
Raenbow07
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I've gone Atheist, after being a so-called born again believer for so many years. They excuse incest, excuse rape. They excuse misogyny. It's a no from me. Follow your heart. Follow logic, too.
ReplyYou can go "atheist" but when the bottom drops on your life dont think things cant make you cry "God help me".
ReplyBELIEVE- The word describes itself if you believe in yourself go for it no one can stop you.
My believe is that do something and then regret otherwise you will regret of not doing it.
BEST OF LUCK AND GO FOR IT
ReplyI think you have to speak up, with respect.
ReplyIf you feel like whatever they're saying is wrong, then go with your heart.
ReplyI think your mum would understand your wishes in terms of a career. If your mother is seriously thinking about marriage right now, then idk what to do. Well anyway, back to the career. Talk to her.
You should be yourself. It's okay to be an atheist, to not believe, to prefer science. It's actually more of a generational thing statistically. Younger people don't believe in religion. I don't think it's a good idea to talk to your mum about that as that would be really chaotic.
ReplyOh and there are communities like subreddits
ReplyDon't sacrifice your life like me. I have spent numerous years making people happy, but still, they don't get happy and criticize me all the time, meanwhile pressurizing me for everything. they have forgotten that I am a human being with desires and my own wishes. So, I would advise you just to follow your heart. Don't get into pressures. BE YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!!!
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